'How to win Heart of Your Wife' released by Mrs. Neera Shastri and 5 Poets of international repute.

Mrs. Neera Shastri, noted women activist, National BJP Leader & daughter-in-law of Ex-Prime Minister of India Shri Lal Bahadur Shastri and 5 Poets of international repute released Gireesh Sharma's book - 'How to Win Heart of Your Wife'.

In a program organized at Gandhi Peace Foundation, Mrs. Neera Shastri, and 5 poets namely, Kavi Mahendra Ajanabi, Kaviyitri Dr. Madhu Mohini, Kavi Deepak Gupta, Kavi Chetan Anand and Kavi Krishan Kant Madhur released the book - "How to Win Heart of Your Wife".

Speaking on the occasion, Mrs. Neera Shastri, expressed her thoughts on the conditions of women in India. She started her speech attacking the foeticide, "Female is the originator of the society, she is the developer and the power of the mankind. Unfortunately, at many places she is killed even before her birth, in the womb of her mother." She added, "In almost 85% of the cases, women have to face biased attitutes at their homes both before and after the marriage. After marriage, the treatment to women is not fair and they are bound in many social restrictions. On the other hand there are no restriction on men in the society."

Akshita, daughter of author, welcomes, Mrs. Neera Shashtri. (Click image to view large size)

She also attacked on the dual upbringing standards for boys and girls, "Boys are offered much more opportunities than girl, in education and self development. On one hand development of girls is supressed, and on other hand she is expected to do excellent tasks. She is supposed to take care of everything, display patience, multi-task. Nobody asks a water of glass from boys, but everybody expects a girl to learn household chores as soon as possible. "

Commenting on the condition of working women in society she said, "Working women have double responsibilities and a very tough life. When she is back from office, nobody cares whether she is tired or exhausted, all expects that she should complete all house chores before going to bed. All this is expected from her without even expressing her displeasure."

Mrs. Neera Shashtri addressing the Audience. (Click Image to view large size)

Appreciating the book and the author, she said, "It is nice that Mr. Gireesh has researched this topic throughly, and come out with a book, that opposes bad practices against women at home, and propogates a positive thought among husbands to take care of their wives. After marriage, a girl is given many advices from her mother, to make adjustments at home. While to a son, mother always teaches machismo. I am sure this book will hit the market and be appreciated by husbands and they would learn how to better respect and love their wives."

Further, she quoted a few chapters from the book which she liked personally. She said chapter 1. Women in Indian Society, chapter 2. Wife - Big Hearts, Small Dreams, Chapter 4. Tender Wives - Tough Life and chapter 4. Sweet Home: A No Smoking No Alcohol Zone are very good and explains how to build a strong foundation of married life. She further appreciated the chapter titled 'Thank You in-laws for such a Wonder Ful Wife' for suggesting a husband to pay due respect to his in-laws as much as he expects from his wife to respect his parents.

The program was followed by a Hasya Kavi Sammelan themed 'Dil Se'. Deepak Gupta, the poet of international repute hosted the 'Kavi Sammelan'. Praising the cover of the book, he said that the colour of heart is red, but author has designed it pink, because it is the colour of his wife's saree. This shows that he truly loves his wife. Reciting a poem on an alcoholic husband and his wife, he said:

"Khane-Peene main, main apnee patni ka saath is tarah nibhata hoon, Woh khana khatee hai, aur main 'pee ke' aata hoon.

Kavi Deepak Gupta entralling the audience.
Click here to read other poem (Pyar@Yaar.com) that Deepak Recited

Kaviytri Madhu Mohini commented on the attires and vulgar ways of TV and film heroines. She humorously said that, she has a lot of respect for these new 'divas' for the honor they have brought to the country. She recited the poem satiring the TV media:

"Man likhne ki chaah karta bahut hai, kintu likhne ke layak nahi kuch dikhta,
TV beti betiyon ke sang dekhna jo chanhoon, TV bhai-bahnon ke sang dekhna jo chanhoon,
TV parivaar ke sang dekhna jo chahoon, Dekhne ke layak nahin hai kuch dikhta.
Sabhyata aur sanskriti ki dhajjiyan uda rahee jo, lakshya ki chahn main charitra nahin dikhta.

Kaviytri Madhu Mohini Reciting Poems.

And she dedicated these line especially for Rakshi Sawant and Mallika Sehrawat:

"Aisi Dropadi ka cheer kaise badhayenge krishna,
Jo dropadi ke angoon par cheer nahin dikhta."

Audience listening to speakers.

Other noted poets Kavi Mahendra Ajnabi, Kavi Chetan Anand also enthralled the audience.

After the release, journalists from UNI, Amar Ujala, Metro Now, Dainik Jagaran and Times Group interviewed the author and his wife Akanksha Bharadwaj. Journalist were also prsented the copies of the book for review.

The Trick to Meeting Guys

Finding a date-worthy man is tough, but you could be making it harder on yourself. Here, five common goofs.

By Jennifer Benjamin

You're hot, you're fun, you have a cool job and a big circle of friends — in other words, you're the whole package. Then why the hell can't you meet a guy? "Often, women subconsciously give off 'keep away' signals," says psychotherapist Rhonda Findling, author of The Dating Cure. Well, we've pinpointed some of the mistakes you might be making and found ways for you to remedy the situation ASAP.

You hang with a big group of girls.

When going on a manhunt, you may feel better bringing backup. Problem is, surrounding yourself with a posse makes you unapproachable. "It's intimidating for a guy," says Findling. "He's afraid of being rejected in front of an audience." To make yourself available, go out with just one wingwoman or separate from the crew and work the room solo.

 

You Always Hit the Same Places

 

How many times have you found yourself saying, "Ugh, there are no cute guys here"? And yet, the following week, you're back at the same bar, with the same people, saying the same thing. "Well, if you want to find a great catch, you should venture outside of your comfort zone," says New York City psychologist and life coach Janice D. Bennett, PhD. The next time a pal invites you to a film class or suggests you hit karaoke night at some dive, give it a shot.

 

You Give Some Guys the Cold Shoulder

 

When you're eyeing a sexy stud and some so-so dude starts chatting you up, you're probably tempted to blow him off. But that could backfire. "If the object of your affection sees you acting rude, he'll move on to a girl who isn't as bitchy," warns Findling. Not only that, but the B-list boy could actually turn out to be cool. So unless he acts like a sleaze, give the guy a break and talk to him. If he still leaves you cold, politely excuse yourself and move on.

 

You Refuse to Be Set Up

 

You whine about how hard it is to meet a man, yet you veto any friend who tries to hook you up and you won't even try online dating. "You need to open yourself up to any opportunity," says Bennett. "Spread the word that you want to be set up." And at least log on to a dating site and see who's out there. If you click with a guy, great; if not, you don't even have to endure a bad blind date.

 

You're Too Intent

 

It's fine that you want to meet someone, but you don't want to be so obvious about it. "Men can sense desperation," warns psychotherapist Katherine Woodward Thomas, author of Calling in "The One." "Most guys will steer clear of a girl they think is dying for a boyfriend." In addition, being on a man-finding mission can make you self-conscious. "You become so fixated on how you look and act that you can't enjoy yourself," says Findling. The goal should be to have fun, not meet guys. The irony: Your laid-back vibe will attract men anyway.

 

 

 

How to win Heart of your Wife about to be released on 9 May

The book "How to win Heart of your Wife is about to be released on 9 May at
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Wife of Bill Grates - Reveals his Bed Secrets

Wives of three multi-billionaires were sitting in a lounge talking about their husbands' performance as a lover.

The first woman says "My Husband works as a marriage counselor. He always buys me flowers and candy before we make love. I like that."

Henry Ford's says, "My husband is a motorcycle mechanic. He likes to play rough and slaps me around sometimes. I kinda like that."

Now it was turn of Bill Grates's wife. She just shakes her head and says, "My husband created Mricrosoft. He just sits on the edge of the bed and tells me how great it's going to be when I get it.

Rename Windows - Widows!!

Why nobody teaches husbands to respect their wives

At the time of marriage before a bride moves to her new house, her well wishers teach her to adjust with her husband and the new family. They tell her to be patient, understanding and obedient to win her husband’s heart. Why no mother teaches her son to devote his life to his wife? Why? That’s why the need arose for this book,, , a book on a subject that is important, relevant and contemporary.

On the first day of year 2007, when I started writing this book, it was that I had perforce to write a new title. The work that this book will do was something that I always wanted to do since I was a child. Being a child and living with my maternal family, I always felt a vacuum for love in my life, especially the maternal love and tenderness that children of my age enjoyed. This, over the year developed into a special love and respect for womanhood.

The middle-class colonies where I passed my life was full of couples struggling for existence and making the two ends meet. The rat race for pelf and power (pelf by most and power by a few), deprived them of a lovely life that they could pass with their counterpart- a life full of emotions.

This book is dedicated to women who crave for real love from their husbands and to those husbands who wonder why their wives are not happy with them!


All my life, I have been observing women, who have craved for love and passed a heartbroken life under the dominance of their husbands,who hardly cared for them. They lived a life with complete subservience to their husbands. As a child they lived under the dominance of their father and brothers, without enjoying basic rights like freedom of speech and freedom of expression. They had no say in the choice of their life partner.. Their father, brother and other male relatives who selected their future husband. Often, they were showcased as a prospective bride and many a times rejected by a prospective partner, but they had no liberty to reject a male.

Read rest in my book.....